What does Happiness Mean to You?
Are you happy?
Do you feel there is something missing from your life? That perhaps the world is against you or that other people seem to smile, laugh and be a lot happier and content in life than you are? Have you ever stopped to wonder why this might be? Moreover, what you can do about it? Have you even considered what happiness actually is?
Happiness and contentment in life differs for all of us. What makes one person happy doesn’t necessarily bring contentment to another. Very often we are happy in life, but we just don’t realize it. Very often the hustle and bustle of life can completely overtake all else and leave us little time to enjoy the things that make us smile and enjoy life to the fullest. If you stop and think about what actually makes you happy and feel content, you might actually find you have those things already around you but you just didn’t realize it.
However, there are times when we can get into a slump and haven’t yet come across the conditions that we regard as bringing happiness and contentment. If this is the case, you have to figure out what changes you need to make to bring happiness into your life, in most cases, it is the smallest of things which bring happiness. You have the power to gain them by working towards them.
Your happiness and contentment depends entirely on you – no one else can give it you. It is something inside you that you have to find and work towards. You can either decide to stay in the rut or to take positive action and make changes to your life or yourself in order to accomplish contentment.
In order to understand what happiness means to you, the first step you should take is to look at your emotions. Ask yourself questions such as “if I could be enjoying something in my life, what would it be?” and “what makes me feel content in my life right now?” Once you understand what your vision of happiness and contentment is, you can build on what you have now or focus on changing your life to what you would like it to be.
The important thing to remember is to examine your feelings by way of the answers you give to your questions. Examine them honestly and concentrate on the good or bad feelings that you get from your questions and answers.
There is no magic spell or potion that can bring you contentment and happiness. It is something that is already right there inside of you, you just have to realize what it is and develop and bring it out to start enjoying life. Happiness can be found in family life, work, relationships, nature or a pet, to name just a few. In fact, it can be found in anything and any situation if you just know where to look and look in the right direction – the inner you.